Having a hard time dealing with my daughters. they are 22 and 28 married and 22 yr old has a 6 month old son and my oldest is expecting a daughter Sept.1st. I have been divorced since my youngest was 16 . The girls and I moved 2 1/2 hrs away to NJ and the 22yr decieded she wanted to go back and finish school there (york Pa) and live with her father. Well I don't know what happened but she changed really didn't want anything to do with me, would barly talk to me. ( reason for the devorce was my ex got sober and decieded he didn't want to be married anymore and shouldn't have gotten married in the first place this was after 17 yrs )
Then she met her now husband and she would talk to me alot then she got pregnant and everything was good. then this past month we had a blow up where she really hurt my feelings. I would never tell them when they said anything that hurt me I would just stuff it as always, but not this time I told her how I felt and she hung up on me. then this weekend they both were at it and I decieded I had enough!! so I wrote them both letters I told them exactly how I felt, about how they talk to me with no respect and that if they could not talk to me with Respect do not talk to me. I did the best that I could raising them with what I had..at the time I worked 2 jobs , took care of my sick Mom and was married to an alcoholic.
With the Grace of God i got through it!!!! I am learning his word and trying to walk with him..and Im so Excieted to finally say it and Mean it ...He is my Lord and Saviour!!!
So if you could say alittle prayer for me I would be so thankful...
God Bless..
~Patty~
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Just wanted to say "Hi!" Patty and to let you know that I am praying for you and for God's healing of your relationship with your daughters.
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